The Xsecret Private Beginner's Guide
Simple, honest answers for your first time. Read it privately, at your own pace.
1 · Choosing your first toy
For her
- Start small: a compact external vibrator or soft egg vibrator.
- Body-safe silicone, several speeds, USB charging, quiet motor.
- App-controlled (e.g. Lovense, 100% Authentic) for long-distance play.
For him
- A soft-sleeve stroker or compact vibrating masturbator.
- Open-ended, easy-to-clean design with plenty of water-based lube.
- Curious about prostate play? Start slim, with a flared base.
For couples
- Wearables and app-controlled toys let one partner set the pace.
- Talk first, start gently, keep it playful.
Golden rules: body-safe materials (silicone, ABS), start smaller than you think, and buy only 100% Authentic products.
2 · Lube basics
| Water-based | Silicone-based | |
|---|---|---|
| Feel | Light, natural, easy to wash off | Extra-slippery, long-lasting |
| Toys | Safe with all toys, including silicone | Avoid with silicone toys |
| Condoms | Safe | Safe with latex |
| Clean-up | Water | Soap and water |
Our everyday pick: DUAI Extreme water-based lube (60 ml). It's gentle, works with every toy and is easy to clean. More lube is almost always better.
3 · Cleaning & storage
- Clean before and after every use with warm water and mild soap or toy cleaner.
- Keep charging ports dry. Check whether it's waterproof or only splash-proof.
- Air-dry fully, then store in a pouch away from heat and sun.
- Store toys separately. Charge every 2–3 months.
4 · Discreet delivery
- Plain packaging, with no product names or images outside.
- A neutral sender name on the parcel and your statement.
- Your details stay private. We never share them.
- Questions? Chat with us privately on WhatsApp.
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